A reflection for Sunday 26th July 2026 by Canon Dean Fostekew
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
…
Robert Frost
How often have you faced a similar dilemma in your life?
Whatever choice one makes will have consequences and will change your life and perhaps the lives of others as well. Choosing between what our conscience tells us is right or wrong is easy but choosing which path to follow when either path is equally good is incredibly difficult. One can often be overwhelmed by indecision by the fear of making a poor choice.
When the choice is between two sides of the same right the choice is almost impossible. Sometimes you will need to ask for an objective view by a detached observer to help you in your choice. Solomon obviously realised this:
“O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David, although I am only a little child; I do not know how to go out or come in..... Give your servant, therefore, an understanding mind to govern your people, able to discern between good and evil..” 1Kings 3:7-9
Solomon, sensibly knew to ask God to grant him wisdom in his decision making. Wisdom is perhaps the greatest gift from God, far more valuable than riches or power:
“It pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this. God said to him, ‘Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches, or for the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right.... In deed I give you a wise and discerning mind..” 1Kings 3:10-13
Solomon’s request of God to grant him:
“ an understanding mind, able to discern between good and evil.”
was a good ask. All of us need to pray for discretion and discernment and that those gifts will be poured upon us by God today and always. We all need to be able to think clearly and logically about our faith, our lives and the choices we need to make. We all need to be blessed by the Spirit with wisdom for it is wisdom that will enable us to ponder the decisions we need to make rationally, logically and to make good choices. Choices that will enable us to move forward and build our society and our lives in ways that will ensure each individual's dignity and worth.
How do we achieve this?
We pray to God for the wisdom to discern his will for us in these coming days, months and years that we will always be able to tread the right path and to know which path to take when either seems to be a good choice.
‘God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference.’